Have you been given an “opportunity” to be obedient to the
command to love not only those who love you- but those who don’t- the difficult
people? How has it gone for you? I had a great opportunity that REALLY
STRETCHED my patience, mouth and that whole bit on being SLOW to anger.(1 Cor 13:4-8)
It was a cell phone carrier- trying to remove a phone from a program. After 45 minutes of “opportunity” I can truly look back and say it wasn’t my best, but I was trying. Really, in retrospect, the person on the other line probably thought that I was unlovable. She really did better than I at being patient, kind, etc.! So, by His grace, I’ll get another opportunity!?!?! Don’t you think that so often I can deal with difficult people with more grace and love when I realize the grace and love that God has shown me an shows me daily?
It was a cell phone carrier- trying to remove a phone from a program. After 45 minutes of “opportunity” I can truly look back and say it wasn’t my best, but I was trying. Really, in retrospect, the person on the other line probably thought that I was unlovable. She really did better than I at being patient, kind, etc.! So, by His grace, I’ll get another opportunity!?!?! Don’t you think that so often I can deal with difficult people with more grace and love when I realize the grace and love that God has shown me an shows me daily?
Then I think of the story of the unmerciful servant: